It did F me up. All my life I was told I was this or that. Everything he WAS. It sort of left me with the inability to make a decision? I tell you it made no coward outta me. I mean this guy was a classic hoarder. Who told me I didn't pick up my things. I keep a normal house. When he died he left me with such an evil mess.. you wouldn't believe it. pure evil. I would not want to be in a relationship with one! if you kiss their ***.. They just luv you. HUGE egos. see I would never do that.Vegas » 27 Dec 2020, 2:28 pm » wrote: ↑ They are definitely evil. I was raised with three of them: My grandfather, uncle, and oldest brother. Absolute evil. I am glad that you turned out good. It's not easy. They definitely **** up at every turn. That's why I enjoy troll @Blackvegetable so much. The guy can't stop **** up. @Pengwin is a control freak. He needs power and control over others. He cannot get it over his own life, so he tries to control others instead. Classic NPD.